Wednesday, April 23, 2008
I asked God. hm..i totally agree that we are always speeding through life..for us students we are always rushing from one lecture to another one tutorial to another...always rushing to do our homework and complete our projects..by the time we are done with all those...we're already very tired and hence..we dun usually think about our day...wat good things actually happened and all i guess..i shld try to start my refelection again...hmm..i tink u guys out there can try it too....like every night before u sleep..juz try and think of all the things tat has happen..the good the bad..and juz thank god for it..and if we made a mistake...try and rmb not to make the same mistake again...tat way..life will be more meaningful.. alright thats all i have for now....take care and do tag...and tks a million andrea (:
friendship affects our lives alot...can anyone live without friends? no..ppl will feel lonely etc...it takes a long time to build a new friendship..its really not easy to be able to find someone whom u can really click with..someone who will be there for u always..someone who is juz suitable to be ur good friend..its really not easy and i totally understand tat...o wells..it also takes alot of effort to maintain a friendship too..sometimes ppl find it too hard or too tiring to maintain a long term friendship..and if no effort is put into maintaining that friendship...u might juz lose it some day..and tats sad...friends are a treasure
o wells..lately have been having some friendship problems..haiz..very draining i muz say..but....haiz..nvm...i really duno wat to do to make things better le..i've already done wat i could..but the hurt will always be there im afraid...im sorry if i've hurt u too...but i juz duno wat to say to u everytime i see u...its like..i've known u for so long ..but ...suddenly...i feel there's really nth to talk about...nth in common...but like wat andrea is saying"is it worth it to lose a friend for one mistake or one event that has causes hurt to you? what about those memories we had?" i really treasure u as a friend..tks for always being there when i needed someone to be there...but perhaps i was too sensitive at that point of time..so things ended up like this..i really din think that things will get so bad..but.........haiz..nvm..i really duno wat to do le....when i ask for advice..ppl always ask me to break the ice when i see u..but the thing is i juz can't bring myself to be nice to you...although deep down within me....i really want to....i hope things will be the same as before.....im really sorry...
now i really understand wat ppl mean when they say friendship is really extremely fragile =(
Hey god, why do you give me friends?
To give you company he says.
But there's always problems that come with it.
And i don't like problems.
That's what makes friendship stronger and more bonded.
No, it sometimes make us grow apart.
If your friend treasure you as much as you treasure them, no matter how bad things go, there's always a u-turn for you to go back to, that means they will always forgive you and try to understand what you mean. If not i wouldn't give you problems if i know the outcome will be bad. Is just how you face it with them that makes the difference.
But God i want great friends.
You do have, it
You are just too fast to see them.
You are always speeding through life,
doing this and that.
Busy like no ones business,
so how can you know.
Maybe you should slower down your pace and look around.
Sometimes the person you think cares the least, cares the most instead.
So i should slower down and look at the wonders around you have provided for me?
Yup i guess you are right. There are countless people that i know that care.
In each part of life at least 1 or many do.
That feeling is so blessed.
Thanks God.
Aaa wait... I got one more.
How if i had someone special in my life, will my friends leave far far away?
Will all my time be around the person, i don't want my frien to be thrown aside.
If you handle life well, nothing will happen.
Like balance it, you do not need to be around the person 24/7 to know the person existence
The best feeling is the test of time , like time management.
So learn the skill of balance.
Your pirorities, your dreams, your family, your friends, your problems, the person and all.
That's about it, you better rest soon tomorrow is going to be a long day.